Wisdom from Razz

- as we get older its natural to want something more stable, so running game gets old and pointless.

With stability comes the chance of getting hurt

- being a hopeless romantic isn't a problem, its a characteristic of you that is a good one

you just have to make sure your brain checks into the equation when looking for someone. im a hopeless romantic and i love it but im realistic and honest about what i want too, so i'm no longer falling for the idiots trying to run game.

- we tend to go back to the people we feel close and comfortable with. we have feelings for them and wish they were something they most likely will never be. Once we come to terms with this thought and own it, we are able to heal and move on and think of that person for who and what they are.

- sometimes we have to beat something to death till it clicks in our heads its over or what not. Its a decision we all have to come too on our own. We all have to consciously decide that we don't want to keep getting hurt by someone.

Stay tuned for more Wisdom from Razz =)

Didn't Flinch

You know there is a song that reminds you of someone and for a long time you would flinch whenever you heard that song. Usually spiraling down memory lane and cringing to the thought of all the bad things that happened with that person.

Then...one day...you randomly hear the song and don't flinch. In fact, you dance and sing along to it. You remember why you love the song and time has successfully disconnected it from that person. Yeah, that happened to me today when i heard "Happy Together" by The Turtles. It use to be this song a friend and i shared together. And now that we are no longer friends, i use to not want to hear it let alone sing to it because it made me sad. But not today! Today...i didn't flinch a bit and enjoyed singing the song with a giant smile on my face! That was awesome!

So don't worry, you will get there too one day...we all do.