Stop "Winning" Please

I was over the Charlie Sheen thing after the first 5mins it started. The man is going through mental and physical issues and basically losing his mind all over the place and so many of you were cheering right along. It is a very sad situation made popular by social media and everyone who jumped on the bandwagon. Dude is not winning at all, at all.

Maybe i'm in the minority with my thinking but making money and media hype off of someone in a public breakdown is just disappointing. I hope he gets the serious help he needs before his next big media storm is his death.

Oh and poor John Cryer! He definitely didn't deserve this.

Go & Get Some!

I don't know how some women can ignore their lover's urges. Who cares if you have been together for a year or more, that doesn't mean the love making needs to become last on the things to do. Hell look at Marge and Homer Simpson, together just about all of our lives and they still rock the boat from time to time...and its Marge who get's props for that, cause i mean, Homer isn't well ya know lol

Maybe it's because i'm a giver and feel that i will always be this way. Maybe it's because i would want my guy to be happy physically and emotionally. Not to say all wives and girlfriends are with holding the goods, i'm just speaking on a few i have come across recently. I know things get in the way such as kids, work, family wtc. But if you are young and still got it, why not share it with your lover as much as you can? Like anything else i think it takes effort to make these moments happen for sure. You have to want it and make it happen. Sex doesn't just happen. Your loins don't magically just get fired up lol You gotta intiate it and for most women it starts in the brain and not in the pants like it does in guy's pants.

I love being adventerous in the loving department so its definitely a must that i have a guy who is the same way. Or at least willing to try anything i want to do, at least once. Maybe i'm a rare breed of woman. Maybe the days of getting it on with your lover whenever you want it is no longer the norm. Maybe people have become so politically correct and censored they are shutting themselves off when it comes to the bedroom. If thisis true, it's very very disheartening. I don't think people should go back to the 60s and 70s and let free love abound but come on...if you can't get wild and uncensored with your lover, what the hell is the point?

You are (hopefully) with someone whom you love deeply. You married or got into a serious committed relationship with them for a reason. I would think one of those reasons is because the loving is really good! So what has changed you so much that you no longer want or need to see this person naked and saying your name? Hell, us single people work day and night to find someone to not only say our name but who wants to make breakfast and cuddle in the morning. Don't let backhand us by not getting it on with your lover! Do you know how insulting that is to some of us single folks? Don't be a prude with your lover. Do it...do it for us single folks!

Celibacy is....

..the new black. After recently hearing this, "Having sex with you made me realize how much I missed my ex", I have decided that it's celibacy for me for until I meet a nice, attractive guy who wants to take me out and spend time with me out outside of the bedroom. Sex just reminds me of how much I miss having a relationship. When I first became single I felt an overwhelming sense of relief and freedom, but now I'm just lonely. Finally for the first time in my life I get marriage. It finally makes sense to me because life is hard and living your life alone is really hard. Having someone to share those hard times with makes it just a little better. So I'm giving up my wild youth for one of moderate adulthood (let's not get too crazy).