It's true, i agree with AbFab for the most part about it's difficult to get laid. And i know guys think its harder for them which i believe it is. It's hard for both sexes for different reasons. But i am just going to talk about the female point of view lol
It's not about finding someone to have sex with. Us ladies have it pretty easy in that department. Show some boobs, leg and shake our asses most guys are sold. We could literally find a guy within 20mins of searching in our phone contacts who will be at our door in another 20mins ready to go. Will it be good, eh depends who it is. But usually it just takes the edge off so we can not kill anyone while we continue to look for another piece of ass.
The issue is finding someone we WANT to have sex with. Forget all the emotional crap we like to have when we get naked with a guy...we literally have to accept that this person is going to see us naked and be in us and we are going to be vulnerable for awhile hopefully getting something amazing in return for such a thing. That and most of us have standards. So going and just letting any dick in isn't appealing. There has to be attraction not just a dick. Guys are lucky in the sense of most can have that disconnect where a girl to screw is just that, a girl to screw and she means nothing to him. Us ladies, don't work that way. Its very hard for us to disconnect. But if we somehow CAN disconnect and find some dick we want in us, we are really hoping its worth the kind of dirty feeling afterwards.
I'm not a whore. I wish some times i was just so i could go and get the easy lay. I wish i could disconnect my brain and just have amazing wild sex with a stranger and not look back. But sadly, i have these things called morals and values in my way. Not to say i haven't had a wild moment here and there. But that's besides the point!
Getting laid for the sake of getting laid isn't as easy as one thinks, period. I've been trying to get into this one person's pants for awhile now but its turning out to be harder than it really should be. I feel your pain AbFab! But don't worry, i have a feeling we will have our fuck buddies soon...i hope. NO ONE likes being in a sexual recession :P
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