The Lost Art of Making Out

So many guys have chosen to bypass the whole seduction of kissing a woman endlessly because they just want to hurry up and stick their dick in her. They think it's a waste of time. They think it's old school and doesn't work. These poor, pathetic guys are the ones who don't get the ladies all hot and bothered...genuinely hot and bothered because they just give her a few pecks and then jam it in and hope she is ready. When most times, she isn't and she just fakes it to get it over with. Trust me, she isn't as ready as she claims and if you were smart enough to take time to get to know women on that deeper level, you would know the difference. 

I am a HUGE FAN of making out. I get over the moon excited when i think about the kissing certain guys. Hell, i get more excited about the possibility of kissing a guy that I'm crushing on, than i do about having actual sex with him. Not to say i don't get excited about getting freaky with him but for me...it all starts with the kissing. If he can't kiss me and enjoy the making out, then I have a hard time going much further. 

Remember when you were a teenager and all you could do was make out? Just sit and kiss, kiss, kiss for hours on end and it was the BEST THING EVER?! Us girls would run and tell our girlfriends how good of kisser he is; touching our lips every time we think about it. Then wondering when we could do it again. Guys would grin around their friends and say they don't "kiss and tell" lol Which clearly mean't they got to make out and grind jeans together lol Either way, guys were more into taking their time to make out with a girl because it got her super hot. In some cases, we would grab them and start rushing them to do more because we were so turned on by the kissing lol Either way...it was a great thing. My generation (I'm in my early 30s for the record) and the ones before us will always know the awesomeness of making out as a teenager and the joy it brought us. A decent amount of us still enjoy it to this day very much so! I feel bad for these generations that will never know that feeling. 

I don't know why guys are so quick to just stick a female! Did a memo go out that said, "Women no longer like making out, just rip their pants off and give them the dick." Because if so, that memo is a bold face lie and does nobody justice! Guys, trust me when i say, making out is a good thing! It's a very good thing. It shows you want to take the time to get her going and care about HER, not just YOU. It also prolongs the passion and heat. Unless you both agree to a quickie, most times, we don't want a "wham bam, thank you ma'am" session. We want it to go longer than 20 minutes. If you can hold out with just kissing her for 20 minutes, she will give you so much more than you expected. I'm not going anywhere near details on the awesome guys I've been so lucky to make out with and what it gets them in return lol Just know...if you haven't made out with someone in awhile, you are missing out on something wonderful and magical. 

Nobody said you have to rush into anything. Take your time. Savor the person, the moment, the connecting. It's really something special if done right.

This is dedicated to all the guys who still know how to seduce a woman by just kissing her. You are the best.